www.terryreal.com.  The website that offers information about the work of Terry Real, a fantastic couples therapist with whom I have been training in the past several years. 

www.relationalcoaching.com.  The website of Lisa Merlo-Booth, a therapist I found out about through my training with Terry Real’s work.  Lisa has a great blog filled with small essays about many relational skills and topics. 

www.positivecoach.org. The website of the Positive Coaching Alliance, a wonderful organization that promotes healthy competition and coaching tips for youth sports. 

RECOMMENDED READINGS:

Terry Real’s three books:

I Don’t Want to Talk about It – main theme is about men and how their undiagnosed depression impacts their lives, particularly their relationships

How Can I Get Through to You--full accounts of how he works to help couples untangle their relational deformities

New Rules of Marriage--his most recent book; more condensed than previous books; has great tips for improving relationships

The Soul’s Code, James Hillman.  A radical thinker whose theme here is that it is not so much our homes and our families of origin that shape us, but that our soul, our tinernal unfolding pattern, is much more powerful than our circumstances.